Wednesday, August 6, 2008

FR: Back In the game bitches!

Aloha all,

Doing my very first FR since mid 2007... In case you didn't know I had a relationship for the past year and it was awesome! (no seriously I love relationships and I loved this girl, she's simply amazing).

Unfortunately for me (and for her I guess) I really don't want to settle down, get married and have kids etc at just 20 years of age, thus im back in the PUA game (and may end up marrying this girl in a few years, but for now I want to learn, and have some fun :D)

First night out was awesome to say the least, AA hasn't actually come back much (we'll as much as I'd expected) after all this time and I started doing sets pretty much immediately.

Started off with 3 guys and a girl, nice warm up set. Moved onto 2 girls, then another 2 girls, then 3 girls, then 2 girls again. All of the beginning 4 sets weren't very interesting, simply saying hello making new friends and being fun :) (but ultimatly not going anywhere). The last set was great, the girls were right into playing around and having fun (as opposed to getting weirded out by me as many girls do :p).

Hung around with those initial girls for a while before heading out to take a leak (the toilets were broken...). When I got back in met up with Shift and Highway (finally got into the club) and started chatting with highway to some random girls outside. They were fun, but I was still being chody.

The rest of the night was pretty much spent between that last group with highway, that set of 2 girls and trying to steal some guy back for a girl I met earlier who she liked...

Unfortunately both the 2 main sets went downhill from the beginning and I could feel myself getting more and more boring as time went on (bleh...). Which was the main downfall of the night. I seemed to be doing well initially, I'd come in happy, high energy and would be quite entertaining (I think looks helped initially too), but then as time went on with both sets the conversation started to droop, lose its energy and they started getting more and more boring.

On an awesome note: Tonights goal was to get over my "Ejecting too quicklyness" as I had always done before, where as soon as the conversation would start to droop (generally about 5 minutes in) I'd leave and go do another set, leaving me with not much at the end of the night.

So I did my goal! YAY! I'm also happy that I got out there after being out of the game for so long and did a multitude of sets :) Not only that, I didn't have a drop of alcohol so it was all sober and fun :)

Next up is my task of keeping the sets going but not letting the energy droop, or at least isolating and moving into comfort and being sexual by the time the energy level has dropped (probably a better idea). Isolating more would be a good idea and would definitely work well :D.

I'm taking steps forward to rebuilding my game from the ground up to be solid, stable and incredibly powerful ^^.

Have Fun

-- Solace